The most important relationship you have, is with yourself


Your purpose is to stay in alignment with your inner being. That's your 'A' game. When you live like this, you're in your true power. Why are you so wonderful? Because you’re a mass of energy, on high speed of vibration. Bob Proctor tells us "We are spiritual beings having a physical experience. We're gifted with an intellect, and spirit is always for expansion and fuller expression. We want to stretch. We need to stretch!”

Our spirit is our soul; it is our connection to life itself. The law of perpetual transmutation of energy talks about how energy moves to and through instruments. Everything is in continual flux and is changing; nothing is constant. Many of these changes are beyond our level of perception. We all feel this energy at some point, although you may not understand it. Your energy changes with your emotions, or with physical exercise.

Energy moves from a high to a low potential and we have the ability to direct it at will. The spiritual, energetic part of you is the highest and, of course, the physical is the lowest. Spirit or energy manifests through the physical. How does it do that? Well, it starts with how we think and that translates into feelings; this is your vibration. Throughout history, the one thing that all the world’s great leaders have agreed upon is that you become what you think about.

Know who you really are

Wherever you are in life, you are emitting energy. Whether it be the energy of lack or fulfilment. This powerful energy harmonises with co-operative components and like a magnet, you and the components are drawn to one another. If you’re emitting lack energy, you will be shown that lack through people, circumstances and situations. The same applies to fulfilment. You attract the people, circumstances and situations into your life by vibrating your most dominant energy. This isn’t magic - though it often feels so - it’s by the law(s) of the universe. When you’re not aware of this, it feels like life is happening to you. After all we are not given a manual at school to help us understand and navigate the world, although I think we definitely should have one. Without awareness and real thought we can drift with ignorance, from circumstance to situation.

You see spiritualist teachers talk about that when we heal from our wounds, we can access our true power. Whilst that is very true, it’s important to know that we never needed to heal. Healing implies that something is broken or wrong. We were never broken, we just had years of habitual patterns and programming from our childhood covering and watering down our greatness that’s shining underneath. It has been determined that our subconscious mind is pretty much fully programmed by the age of seven. But when we ‘heal’ - or perhaps more aptly put - when we see and break free of the conditioning of our minds, we step into our true potential, our true power.

Knowing this and knowing who you really are, regardless of conditions or situations you might find yourself in, nothing really matters. You are your world. This isn’t ego based. This is a quiet, loving belief in self; and it is special. What does it mean to love yourself? I used to think I loved …myself. But I was settling for second best in lots of areas. “This will do” I told myself, hoping someone or something would rescue me. When I realised that there was more to life, I wanted it and I knew it was me alone who would have to do the work. Fear held me back. Fear of upsetting the apple cart, not going along with what others wanted of me. I immediately felt restricted and confined. I was in a prison of my own making and wanted out. Sometimes it is scary to go against what's familiar and comfortable, but I wanted more in my life and I was just, well…….stagnant.

I found myself in uncomfortable positions. People were unhappy with me and found me at fault for their hardship. I finally had a thirst for my life and myself. I began to take my life back and be the one in control of me. Months went by, when I realised I was living the lesson but not learning it. You can't control others, but you can control yourself and your reactions to them. What did I have to do to get a better result? Not react. Like a clever judo expert, I ought to dodge their fury and let it flow past me. When you're mindful of your patterns and reactions, this has good results. However, staying so aware on a regular basis can be a tricky mastery. The ego wants to save us from the hurt and so it sends back more angry energy to the perpetrator.

Taking the bait

It's a natural reaction, but one that can hook us into the pattern that constantly goes around and around and leaves us tired, weary and bitter. When you love who you are, on a foundational level that is solid and secure, anyone's view of you is just an opinion and you are able to view it as such. There will always be unsupportive, unhappy people who like nothing better to put down others to make themselves feel better. But note, these are unhappy people. I can bet you that in secret they probably beat themselves up too. Those two different vibrations of happy and unhappy aren't in harmony with each other, they repel and so an unhappy person will be irritated when you are happy and vice versa. When you're on top of the world, you don't want to be around those that aren't. This is the law of polarity. The more I practised correcting my vibration like-minded people showed up in my life. If you believe in loss, you will lose. If you believe in competition, that’s what you will get. If you believe in gain and abundance, gain and abundance are what you will receive.

Which brings us to the question…… Can one be happy no matter what happens? It truly is a perception shift. What can help shift your thinking is to write 10 things that you're grateful for each day to shift your perception and ultimately your vibration. There is always something to find, even if it's just that you choose to be happy no matter what. When you make that decision, let your heart guide you towards the things to be grateful for. There are many. Abundance is all around you. Look for it.

Let other's criticism fly past you. Not reacting isn't a way to say 'this is ok', you're choosing to do something different because you know you are wonderful and you don't have to defend yourself on that. And if they gossip or say bad things about you to others, know that those people will see them for who they really are. The truth always reveals itself.

If you truly want to change the quality of you life, whether it relates to your health, wealth, or relationships you can do so by looking into yourself. Take a magnifying glass to your mind, find its beliefs and limitations. Stretch yourself and go forward with enthusiasm to create better circumstances. Repetitively and consistently write down every day who you want to be, where you want to go. Sit down and visualise it. Remember you are training your subconscious. It’s the key to success.

Let your cup run'eth over with love and admiration towards yourself. Let yourself beam how undoubtedly brilliant you are. Give to yourself fully and often. Others will feel it from you and want to be a part of it.

Be you, because you are wonderful. xx

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